When does one decide to get married? My little sister’s dad is getting married, and I mean that’s so exciting you know. To have found love, to be in love, to know that’s who you want to spend your life with, through the good, through the bad. Whatever the case may be. But at the same time, should there be a limit to the amount of time that should pass before you decide you are getting married.
Getting into a new relationship is amazing, its exciting, its new, its fresh, hormones run wild, feelings just explode, but after awhile possibly that fades, and you start to expect or acknowledge certain behaviors. And that’s what’s scary when you get comfortable. When you get those butterflies still, but you just expect the person to always be there and the feelings to just always exist.
Its terrifying marriage, the whole lot, the being with one sole person for life. And with the divorce rate as high as it is, who really believes in love anymore? That two people can trust, and just trust without cause forever. Sure you’re going to be attracted to other people, and oddly enough I’d be fine with my significant other to say so, its normal, but love, that’s what you should be concerned about. If they love another.
Life and love is such a mess, I just can’t even explain the thoughts that run through my head. That have after hearing the news. I mean I resorted to wondering how one knows. I have this problem well if you read the post below you’ll understand (self- promotion - check!) But I have this problem where I have to know why. Or how, or just why things work in the way they do.
I’m just a mind filled with mush, jumbled, unnecessary mush. And I’m letting it out here. Sorry guys, my blog- my rants.